Unmarried must read )! ! ! { switch }First, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seems to disagree ; he is not when you want him, he seems when you are not no difference, does this mean?
They take turns playing the role of pursuing and being pursued; but if one party is always an suitors, such feelings are not sound, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and pain.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but that you transform the object.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied with it? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling with the happiness of both sides as a bet.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for it? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? If you are not afraid to leave the other side, he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a
Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, wronged people, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
key to remember here is , your partner do not want your rescue, but you really know him.
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young actress, college students fall in love with professors, secretaries fell in love with the boss ... ... , fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not be treated equally.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean position, but the attitude, not idolize each other. Fall in love with the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you are just attracted by each other
everyone looks like, right? If you find yourself being attracted to each other to a character, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ..., I will be with him (her) together? Appearance is the primary productive forces men
six
brief opportunity to be together day and night you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other ... .... You go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... Short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling will not last long, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to select the object
rebellious parents did with you always stressed the need to find a rich object, but why each of your men Friends are a pauper; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father imparting instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, just do not want students ... ...
If you selected the object, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you and not really love each other, this relationship is doomed to no avail.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. The first choice partner for life provided that - the other is
If you love the man promised to break up earlier, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object your presence, they do not intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may reunion ... ... These are not free themselves.
other and married or those who object interaction, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply another person with leftover parts.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you have to choose the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are feeling one of the eight mentioned above, go to counseling, do not waste time, there are better waiting for you
nine objects. Replies must not love the person fails
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seems to disagree ; he is not when you want him, he seems when you are not no difference, does this mean?
They take turns playing the role of pursuing and being pursued; but if one party is always an suitors, such feelings are not sound, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and pain.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but that you transform the object.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied with it? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling with the happiness of both sides as a bet.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for it? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? If you are not afraid to leave the other side, he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a
Find a traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, wronged people, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
key to remember here is , your partner do not want your rescue, but you really know him.
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young actress, college students fall in love with professors, secretaries fell in love with the boss ... ... , fell in love with the object of worship, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not be treated equally.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean position, but the attitude, not idolize each other. Fall in love with the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you are just attracted by each other
everyone looks like, right? If you find yourself being attracted to each other to a character, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ..., I will be with him (her) together? Appearance is the primary productive forces men
six
brief opportunity to be together day and night you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love with each other ... .... You go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... Short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling will not last long, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to select the object
rebellious parents did with you always stressed the need to find a rich object, but why each of your men Friends are a pauper; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father imparting instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, just do not want students ... ...
If you selected the object, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you and not really love each other, this relationship is doomed to no avail.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. The first choice partner for life provided that - the other is
If you love the man promised to break up earlier, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object your presence, they do not intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may reunion ... ... These are not free themselves.
other and married or those who object interaction, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply another person with leftover parts.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you have to choose the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are feeling one of the eight mentioned above, go to counseling, do not waste time, there are better waiting for you
nine objects. Replies must not love the person fails
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