After 80 collective Pentium III

Unspoken rules of life after 80:
can not watch TV, but the computer is a necessity
out Bengda to three treasures: cell phone, keys, loose change
dozens of pieces never know where the money is spent, no how to eat, not how to wear

negative, refuse to grow up. Do not like to be that mature.
Acquaintance in front of a word chatter, before the silent stranger
there must be a hobby is sleeping
all day long soak in the Internet, do not know what to do. 80 most frequent word is

topic of weight loss is constant and action
hungry, eat regular breakfast, lunch and eat together
typing was quite inaccurate, but still hit the front soon
12:00 rarely sleep

anything can be the same, alone, is a person's carnival, carnival, is a group of people alone

arrogant for no reason. Think that other people can not understand themselves and others as a reason for disdain of the arrogant for no reason no capital, they are fundamentally inferior and look forward to positive and look forward to recognition failure when a man is hated even the courage to say no.

80 after we have a lot of dreams, some realized, some shattered.
80 after us, some famous, some unknown.
80 after we had struggled a loss, or survive.
80 after we withdrew the wisdom of youth, young and tender, began to adapt to the community of nations.
our hearts are well aware, we have experienced too much.
sub-family of love and cooperation

friendship and cooperation in the sub-sub and cooperation



have asked yourself many times why alive? Later, have been too lazy to think about the meaning of life.
had for love can not be properly read, and later left to work for love. So because other people are in love, to love yourself, love is more than love to practice, and then you even begin to doubt have insisted on the love.
used to think that life be with my friends, one day a month, he suddenly found that they are gone
woke up at midnight, only stunned that has always been only one person
who own more growth, more easy alone



now still remember the first dream? Or, how many people have stuck to their youth when the dream.
at home, the parents of our obedience, out of the house, our social obedience.
could not understand things will gradually get used to, do not know this habit is good or bad?
I do not even know my dreams to be?
But one thing is certain, will not make some wild teenage dream.
- This is a period of 80 Pentium III True Confessions.

sad to read in the Passes a Huichangdangqi.
Yes, in the past few days, a generation after 80, from 2010 onwards, Collective Pentium III. Or whether you want to grasp youth, human progress, is so neat uniform.

At thirty, people burst blood, people sigh with emotion.
the face of the sudden emergence of 90, 80 there is reason to say that they are very young?
If after 50 and 60 after the foundation of a country, has become the backbone after 70, 80 youth are no longer in the course of human history, after what will be a role?
Yes, they have lost, have fears, have failed, once social understanding However, overnight, a flood when they appear in the before the eyes of the people perceive the world through Internet search engines, the wine bar to drink a small inner life of a generation by now has become the children of filial piety, it is worth relying on a partner, sympathy and affection the children's parents ... ...
This is the way Pentium III 80 -

them to be the only son or daughter, no brothers or sisters, are the parents of the the first place. Not the original impulse to understand the painstaking efforts of parents, know how to understand their helplessness. Simple relationship between the original family, one day suddenly became clear understanding of the relationship between people, the original has not been so simple, the most worthy of belief, in addition to parents, as well as their own.
they broke our hearts in love several times, although there still believe in love, but no longer desire to share love, romance and exciting, but expect a happy, happy marriage. They have no love in marriage as a sublimation, but the marriage as a family. They have stubbornly thought it was just 70 after the blind date, or the way an earlier generation of marriage, but until now only found after 80 blind date has become the mainstream way of marriage. A space to each other in despair again and again, has produced a numbness on the intimate and exclusive, but still run around in the blind field:

in before they rely on the Internet, leaving the network does not know how to have; they control music control movie control of the cover, got control of the obsessive-compulsive disorder feel their own, but one day suddenly found that the frequency of use less and less phone, text messaging less and less, and sometimes not even send text messages, they would rather make a phone call, hang up hurriedly. QQ is also not as hard to stop blinking, out of the many groups, some groups because of the face, has been in diving, surfacing only occasionally for breath to select several groups to take a few bubbles that their way there. They never for CS, Warcraft, sleepless nights, more time will holding a book, quietly watching.

they found fewer and fewer friends, myself are older the better; they finally become or will become someone else's other half, pledged commitment to each other a lifetime of happiness, in fact, disturbed mind; they began to have learned that people have slowly getting old, so readily accept skin wrinkles and crow's feet; they hate their parents way of education, but now do the same letter used against their own children; they may have a stable income, it can always keep up with house prices rising salaries speed; they walk on the road, no chance to breathe a break; they know how to enjoy, know and treasure, refused vulgar; they have their own perseverance, never give up; they have their own different pressure, and slowly turn them into power; responsibility on their shoulders the burden of resistance with the courage to act afraid of failure ... ...
... ...
Now, home construction has passed the baton in their hands. They have been or are to become the keynote of progress in China, close to the
80 men after the 30-year-old is more mature and wise.
80 30-year-old woman more beautiful and intellectual.

Let their wives become the world's happiest woman doing it!

 Is a good man to see 1 was always kissing her, while she was not looking when crossing the road

2 pull her hand. Even if the quarrel.

3 must have a house of your own, even if small.
4 with listening to her favorite songs and her love to watch movies, with her moving.
5 let her lie in your lap, you can touch her hair.

6 bath, when she sang to her, so she does not feel stuffy.
7 coax her to eat but she does not eat nutritious food.
8 with a couple toothbrush, and then put your toothbrush and a change in her secretly.
9 when she was very tired when she squeezed shoulder, squeezed the foot, and then tickling her soles of the feet make her laugh.
10 secretly recorded her look like walking and sleeping. Whether she lie, or a threat is not removed.
11 there is no reason to hug her.
12 she wrote the things I must look carefully, that she read the inside.
13 over the weekend for her to do the things she likes to eat, then walk.
14 under the big day back in public to embrace her or stop her.
15, when walking in the street not more than 1 meter away from her distance.
16 into the restaurant's door or when the library must sliding door for her to let her go first.
17 bargain grocery shopping with her, and she cook you soup.
18 for her room while she was half asleep, tucked, take a look asleep, she woke up, and then kiss her forehead.
19 special period in her side for her hot brown sugar water, and then watch TV if nothing had happened.
20 am occasionally called her lazy voice to listen to her commission and asked what she wants her back.
21 had given her a lovely nickname that only you can call.
22 cell phones and computers must be the background of her photo or your photo.
23 nickname on the phone must be different from others, when you call her, saw her sister will be very envious.
24 at home to help her childish hair comb, and then called her daughter. If the business will take
25 things to her, although not expensive, but to prove that you think of her all the time.
26 her ride, must be linked up for her seat belt, and then to pull himself.
27 when she wants to release the hold when she must hold on for a while.
28 will never leave her alone, even if you are vexatious, must make her safe.
29 a bad mood when you can talk with her, if you do not want to say, let you hold it.
30 just pretend Qiangzhao Chi on the way a certain food, multi-folder for her more.
31 when she was helpless when you could take her to climb mountain to see the sunset.
32 definitely not after a fight the Cold War, after the coax her to tell her you are good for her.
33 sleeping like her hold you, but when she turned backwards and must have turned around and then hold her.
34 in her home when taking pictures of her and told her to wear the same look beautiful aprons.
35 certain if she takes good care of her sick because she was most vulnerable at this time, for her great nourishing soup boil.
36 wallet must have a picture of her.
37 came home from work will say out loud: my wife, I'm back.
38 midnight deliberately pulled the quilt to their side, let her leave their closer.
39 asked me to listen to her regular meals, drink plenty of water eat fruit, said she was winded and then kiss her.
40 thunder when take her to the arms of sleep, and then said: I am nervous.
41 to help her wipe her mouth to eat to stay in the cream and jam.
42 to stay a little bit of stubble in to kiss her when Zaza her.
43 in front of her friends, attentive care of her, let them know that her choice was right.
44 in front of your friends and attentive care of her, let her feel that you ignored her.
45 lifetime trip with her to her favorite city or country.
46 when she was in a daze, cooking, mopping the floor or lying on the balcony, you will Lanzhu behind her.

47 allowed her to say sorry. Told her it was imperial edict. However, these two words can be nice to replace her husband.
48 even in winter, she said, and ran quickly thirsty you will pour out of bed to help her, but she must come back to help you warm body.
49 when her wallet much money, you will show it, she said: help me buy a pair of socks, keep the change.
50 let her fall in love with the game you love, let her fall in love with you love the team.
51 for raising pets.
52 to see the place in her written articles.
53 took her to amusement parks, cinemas, libraries, museums, cartoon exhibition, and mini bar.
54 have a song about our stories. Every time I go KTV have to sing.
55 when she and you are happy to discuss things or say things, they must put down the things listening.
56 days if she wants to leave you, you will retain, will let her go. Tell her to come to you when wronged.
57 holding a grateful heart and her get along, when you want to get angry, you have to learn to be patient.
58 playing an umbrella when it rains, as the pace of step tread water let the weather take her mood.

59 points to her favorite restaurant dishes, if not on points of fact did not eat, and shouting with delicious or distasteful.
60 in front of your friends and parents would praise her. Regardless of whether she was present.
61 when she ignores you, to imitate her movements, her voice, her face, she said the words spoiled.
62 took her home will take her to the door, tell her tomorrow will come and take her.
63 not stare at another woman in front of her look, to see A piece she never caught.
64 out of a total energy change at any time she likes to eat sugar.
65 if you have one day out of the accident, hope she can find someone to love her for you to take care of her.

Gestalt switch

 The. According to the most concise explanation of Po Ersi, Gestalt therapy is aware of the disease for themselves, that is, the awareness of their own actions, experience, and wake up, is a self of self-cultivation treatment. Its implementation is simple, wide range of applications.

one, Do not miss tomorrow's always something, and do not always regret what happened yesterday, and put your mental focus on what to do today.
Second, the For far happened, we can not. Unfounded, for it does not help. Remember, you are now living here and here, not far away in other places.
Third, You may have encountered such a situation: in the unit, when you meet the leadership or colleagues, you say hello to them, but they did not respond, did not even smile. If you therefore think of going, thinking to himself, why they do this to ourselves? This person is not there for their opinions? Is a underestimate yourself? In fact, maybe you did not expect you to greet him, and he may be preoccupied, bad mood, you do not pay attention to say hello to him nothing more. Many mental disorders is often not practical base
four, Modern society requires people to think more and less to feel. It all might think, is how to do a good job, how to get good grades, how to do a good job and leading the relationship with colleagues. So easy to overlook or do not mind to enjoy the scenery, listening to good music. A feature of Gestalt therapy is emphasized as a basis for thinking the Intuitive thinking is a very valuable psychological qualities, but now people are too much emphasis on logical thinking, it is often overlooked, and the terrible consequences will be to make people lose their emotions into the machine table.
Five, People often want to have a pleasant feeling, and unwilling to accept the sad, sad unpleasant emotions. Pleasant and unpleasant is a relative term, but also the existence of each other and mutual transformation. Therefore, the correct attitude is: a pleasant, but also unpleasant emotions; have received a pleasant mood, unpleasant emotions are mentally prepared.
six, People are often prone to errors or failures of others, when a slight, immediately to conclusions. To do so, with others to prevent and avoid unnecessary friction and conflict, and you also helps to avoid unnecessary trouble and anguish.
seven, Modern society, there are a lot of authority and idol in disguise, they will imprison your mind, your hands and feet bound, for example, education, money and so on. Gestalt therapy on the negative attitude of these Yigai. We should not blindly go along against the majority, thus losing the habits of independent thinking; unprincipled and do not succumb to others, thus deprived of the ability to act independently.
eight, Do not say anything, I'm so and so if I will succeed. Should start from their starting point, give full play to their potential. Do not blame on others; should start from now, make every effort to play to their talents and do what I can do.
Nine, Often easy to avoid responsibility. For example, poor test scores, failure will blame for their poor home environment, school is not good; work well, that would excuse a failure of leadership, poor conditions and so on. His own fault, fails all the blame on to the objective reasons.
Accordingly, on the Pearl out of the nine principles of Justinian, you can also add one, is to Each person in society, occupy a specific location, so you have to in accordance with the requirements of this particular location, to fulfill your rights and obligations, if you do not unanimously accepted by society, and we all abide by this specification do , then you'll be on your community and others condemned and opposed.

Every woman should understand the

 For a few days just to know you did not call you Girls

2. For the first date does not lead you to eat on the person that he did not care you hungry, even if you're not hungry, as a boyfriend, you should accompany him to dinner to keep pressing, Even if nothing to eat, that is your thing, his boyfriend has done the right thing.;

4. Do not look for what is handsome and wealthy people boyfriend, unless you are good enough , otherwise you are losing her grip on him, not to find what your ideal guy, why do not you know what your side as you like him to change the style of ~ course, provided that he agreed to change for you, then you are lucky a;

5. Do not eat, drink only know to find a boyfriend ******** do, you will unknowingly follow him fall;

6. Do not to others How handsome object comparisons, how rich, it is his, not yours, should pay attention to her boyfriend for their own good, there does not have scholarships, concerned about his quality of

7. for always questioning your home economy situation boyfriend, best to ask him, you should be very clear that you to him, is dispensable;

9. Do not let him unlimited money, love is 2 personal matter, he is not a parent, no obligation to support you

10. in front of his friends, pretend to be good, to his face, no one in the pack when he is male, in obedience to his girlfriend in front of friends, remember, face each other given;

11. For there is no ideal, no fighting man, then commander of money, that is temporary, and only really for you, you swear to make a man happy than anyone else, will give you rest of his life's happiness ~ ~;

12. Do not always say that others in front of her boyfriend in her boyfriend how much money you should be concerned about his learning, care for his ideals.;

13. Do not loneliness and love, to be because of love, and love;

14. Do not care about other people's past, because you have to have his future;

15. tend to forget some of the important day of the man, leave him, it was not forgotten, but do not care.;

16. Although the girls have a financially independent and can not spend unlimited money to her boyfriend, but very stingy man, left he explained in a scientific mind, love for him he would have to save money.;

17. sweet, and occasionally listen to them, if the boyfriend always said, asked him to stop. ;

18. I remember his smile, holding his painful cry every day before going to bed that night, wanan ~ ~ wanan ~ ~ I love you, love you! ;

19. No matter how bad you are, he let himself continue to charm, if not for him, but also to their own;

20. Continue to recharge, learning, only the appearance but not content beautiful girls ~ have still not feed themselves the ability to rely on men support, no matter how he loves you, you will one day suppressed.;

21. maintain the pure heart, heart talk love, ~ cherish their ~;

22. Do not always wait for you, he lets you, not your privilege of being late, he loves you, rather than his fear for you ~;

23. really like the people to pay, may fail, but at least tried, not shame.;

24. Do not put time on the love, and to friends and family some time been passing around him replacement, but only family and friends with your life, forgive you of any fault.;

25. who met online, without deeper understanding, not with him, sometimes fate does not rule out that such arrangements, but please do not rush.;

26. really like you boys like to see more of your log and see your photos, he would like to know more of your heart, not just appearance. ;

27. for the derailment of the men, if we really can not do without him, give him a chance, remember, for once, or else do not hesitate to leave him.;

28. met a good man should dare to seize, do not say sorry after wringing.;

29. Do not play with the feelings of others, play an ambiguous, people do not want to be playing each, have behaved, do not impose on others ~ ! ;